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01 December 2011 @ 08:01 am
 

I feel like I've become a lurker in the community, or that I've completley abandoned it. I just wanted to post that, I am alive and somewhat well, and even if I don't post a lot, I am lurking a bit. My real life has just gotten so chaotic, I haven't really been able to do anything else.

At the beginning of the month I told my husband that I didn't want to be with him anymore. So..... that's pretty much taken over my life right now. Divorce is a bitch, and we've been together since 2003, and married since 2006.

I'm not asking for apologies or anything, this is something I want, and I've actually been a lot happier since I came clean. I just haven't really had any motivation or time to get in my game and play.


Love you guys. :)

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Rhiannonrhiannon_alexis on December 1st, 2011 10:32 pm (UTC)
Thank you, and yeah, it was the hardest thing to admit. But I am very happy right now. I feel like I can breathe.
morlaism: asianmorlaism on December 1st, 2011 05:14 pm (UTC)
We love you, too, rhiannon! I agree, divorce's a bitch. For 2 years I'm a child of divorce and my parents haven't talked to each other since the day they broke up, that's awkward. I hope things work out better for you than that.
Rhiannonrhiannon_alexis on December 1st, 2011 10:33 pm (UTC)
<3 Thank you!

We've been talking and I told him that I'd like to try to stay friends and civil because whether we like it or not, we're stuck together forever, lol. Hopefully we can keep that in mind in the future.
lovelyxwow: ♔only humanlovelyxwow on December 1st, 2011 09:45 pm (UTC)
I can say that it's a shock to hear about the divorce and that, but if you're happier, maybe it's for the best. How are your girls?
Rhiannonrhiannon_alexis on December 1st, 2011 10:34 pm (UTC)
Yeah, it's just crazy.

The girls are doing okay. Kaitlyn, my older one, has been acting out a little, and fighting with Lauren. Lauren's so little she really doesn't notice anything except that either I or their dad leaves for the night occasionally. Thank you for asking about them. :)
lovelyxwow: ♔northern lightslovelyxwow on December 2nd, 2011 02:00 am (UTC)
Well I hope they keep on doing okay and that you guys will be alright! <3
cassandra: Katy blink blinkcosmetical on December 1st, 2011 11:37 pm (UTC)
I'm always glad to see a post from you. I've been lurking a lot too.

I'm happy that you were brave enough to get that off your chest and move in the right direction for yourself. I hope it continues to go as you wish and that you and your daughters stay happy.
Rosie6akalaka1 on December 2nd, 2011 01:42 pm (UTC)
It takes a lot of guts to admit that you are done with a marriage (especially with holidays coming), so congrats and thumbs up on that. I am glad you are happier now. Hopefully you and your husband can manage to stay civil for the kiddos. Hugs for you and your girls :)
psychosimpsychosim on March 30th, 2012 02:57 pm (UTC)
How are you today? :) And is your big tattoo all finished now?